Tuesday, February 19, 2008

Choices

I did not have a good day yesterday. The bigs didn't have school. I tried to have fun with my children. They were banshees instead. The screaming, whining, crying, fussing and teasing lasted pretty much the whole day. I prayed, did devotions, used timeouts, roomtime, loss of privileges, yelled and finally told Joshua I needed to go for a drive. I drove around the block and collected my head enough to make supper. I realized that my children CHOSE their attitude, behavior and day as much as I did.
Pat asked, "How was your day?"
I said, "Horrible."
Pat "Well, aside from being horrible, how was it?"
Me "Fine."

7 comments:

Kara Jo said...

We had a similar morning with Abby off of school, too. It culminated with me screaming at the top of my lungs and yelling "shut up" a couple of times. I'm not proud of that. Abby promptly rebuked me and after I calmed down I had some forgiveness to ask for. Not fun. I spent the afternoon meditating on the psalms in desperation. I went back to a favorite lifeline:

"Set a guard over my mouth, O LORD; keep watch over the door of my lips. Let not my heart be drawn to what is evil, to take part in wicked deeds." PSALM 141:3-4

This morning I began my day with that.

Hope your day is more peaceful today. I'm going to Aldi. I'll need prayers for that. :)

Carla said...

kj,
So sorry.
Thank you Lord that your mercies are new every morning.

Anonymous said...

Carla, I'm so sorry about your day. I'm praying that today will be better.

erin said...

Sounds like everybody had a lousy President's Day.
Sorry, friend.

Carla said...

Yesterday was Presidents Day?! Oh, yes. Yes, of course.

zcoffeegirl said...

Mine wasn't much better. My theory..we're all getting a little couped up...spring is coming..where we can send the cherbus outside. I wasn't a patient Mom, either. Thanks for the verse, Kara..thinking I need that one on my fridge now.

My DH ventured to call about noon to see how it was going...my response was, besides the toilet being plugged up, Bethany screaming a huge fit over sandals, David making Faith scream, Faith copying every stinking scream of Bethany's...fighting with a certain child to do.his.homework...a tummy ache due to a minor crohn's attack....we're doing just.fine.

I would think for President's Day, the kids should be in school learning about...oh..let me just suggest...Presidents? Good grief.

So happy to see Tuesday.

LadyD said...

I agree with Sheri~
Who cares about dead Presidents anyway?!
I even used a naughty word yesterday myself, although I backed it up with the justification that Pastor Larry says it is not a sin to swear....
oops