Four By 40
Join me for some quips, quotes and vignettes from the trenches. Short and sweet.
Thursday, December 25, 2025
Friday, November 28, 2025
Thanksgiving 2025
Wednesday, November 19, 2025
A Day in the Life
Me to my wife Carla: "I am going to go for a walk."
Her: "Ok! I am going to finish writing my New Years resolutions for you."
Me: dumbfounded look
Her: "What!!? It's a joke!"
Her: "But I do have some for you."
Saturday, November 01, 2025
Mmmmmm
Saturday, October 25, 2025
"SENIOR" PICTURES
Why do I do these? To make my husband Patrick laugh of course. I HAVE THE BEST TIME HEARING HIS JOY at my total goofiness.
Thursday, October 23, 2025
60!!!
Monday, October 20, 2025
The Thought I Think
The first thought I have when I walk into Walmart is,
"I have got to get outta here."
Thursday, September 25, 2025
Empty Nest
Eldest son Josh left for his ministry opportunity with Casas por Christo!! (Homes for Christ) He made his way to El Paso, TX to build the video production crew as they watch servants from all over the world donate their time and talents to build homes for those that are homeless in Mexico. Thank you Lord for this opportunity!
Tuesday, September 16, 2025
Monday, September 15, 2025
45th Friendaversary!!
Thursday, August 21, 2025
Monday, August 11, 2025
I Miss You Stuart!!
Thursday, August 07, 2025
Happy Birthday!
Happy 25th Birthday to you Sarah Bearah!! You are such a joy and a blessing and always our party girl!! I am grateful to God to be your mom and watch you grow to be a Godly woman!!
I love you SAS!!
Wednesday, July 30, 2025
31st Anniversary!
God has truly restored what was broken and filled these years with more joy than I ever thought possible. Each one better than the last.
Saturday, July 19, 2025
Yes You Did
My wife Carla asked me what I did today. I told her I went to Menards 3 times in 4 hours. She said, "Oh so you spent your time Menarding. You Menarded all day."
Wednesday, June 25, 2025
Prophetic
Josh and I sat on the porch last night. We got to talking about the food I used to make. Cinnamon Streams, tortellini, tacos, spaghetti, grilled cheese and soup, corndogs. The easy peasy foods. Josh wanted to read some stories from this blog. Ohmystars! We laughed until we cried. Especially over this one.
Sunday, October 15, 2006
Nack
Nathan "I hab a nack? I hab a nack? I hab a nack? I hab a nack?"
Mom "Nathan if you say the word snack again you are going to your room for a timeout."
Nathan "I hab one? I hab one? I hab one? I hab one?"
And this one.
Wednesday, March 07, 2007
Typical
Nathan "Can I have a snack?"
Mom "Nathan, we just ate lunch."
Nathan "Yay, time for lunch!"
Mom "No, we just ATE lunch."
Nathan "Oh. Can I have a snack?"
There were so many comments over the years that said," one day you will talk about these days and you will laugh and laugh." Indeed.
Saturday, May 10, 2025
She Did It!
Saturday, March 15, 2025
See You Soon!
Wednesday, March 12, 2025
Saturday, February 22, 2025
Finishing Strong!
She's writing her final four case reports! After completing the education, exam, and supervision phases, she's almost officially certified as a Biblical Counselor. She started this journey years ago, and life took its turns. But just over a year ago, she regrouped, made a plan, and took an exam prep course that got her motivated-and she finished strong! I've been amazed at her diligence and resilience through this rigorous process. Her compassion and care for others shine so clearly, and she's incredibly effective with God's Word. Her teaching background stands out as she thoughtfully develops counseling plans. I have so much to learn from her! God has used every part of her journey to shape her into the image of Christ. Nothing has been wasted.
It goes without saying, but I'll say it anyway-I'm incredibly proud of you, Babe!
From my BC Supervisor
And Carla did really well. She is a great counselor...loves God, His Word and the ladies with whom she meets

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